Princess Sophie

Sophie has officially graduated from toddlerhood. Join us as we embark on a new journey in her life...

Monthly Snapshots

Great Day

This was a great day. Sophie was able to sit at her “office” for a long, long while and finished many pages of her Brain Quest Workbook. She just kept doing without bothering me at all. I was beaming with pride and happiness at the thought that my little girl has matured and stabilised overnight! Or was it the flu medication that made her extremely docile? I do not know but it sure felt great!






Then came the more challenging part, she had to colour the stated objects according to specific colours. Ahhh… my little girl could be such a mule sometimes! She refused to colour the clouds blue because clouds are white! In fact, it was so candid and comical that I just had to post it on YouTube (12 hours to upload this video!).



Working

I have always wanted to buy Brain Quest Workbook for Sophie, but I only bought it a few days ago from a seller at Singapore Motherhood Bulk Purchase. Prior to this, I thought it was too expensive for Sophie to abuse. She was not ready for serious work and I would get upset if the book is vandalised. Now, she is more stable and she can do the activities if I read her the instructions. Yet, the activities seem a little too simple for her now. In any case, it is always good for her to revise, I guess.



Just when I thought it was too simple for her, she mistook "d" for "b" and coloured part of the box. After I corrected her, she was quite embarrassed and kept explaining to me why it should not be "d". I also noticed she was colouring in a peculiar manner. Apparently, Papa has taught her to do so to help her keep the strokes within the box.




Next was the Kumon activity books. I bought these a long long time ago for her to practise cutting, folding and pasting. However, she was never able to follow my instructions properly so I hesitated in giving them to her. Today, she finally showed that she could do it pretty well. I am so relieved! Even though they are meant for 2-year-olds onwards.



I am so glad that she can complete the craft on her own nowadays. Sophie is finally able to do simple cutting, pasting and colouring. This is a great step forward because it shows she can do simple crafts independently from this point on. I do not need to hover and assist as much as before! Horray!

Read




After dinner, I took out our Sunshine Phonics books and tried to engage Sophie in some reading practice. I am not expecting her to learn how to read this way but I wanted to get her used to prints and understand the link between the spoken and written form of the language. I am surprised that she could actually recognise a few words (probably by memory) already.





Then she decided she wanted to read the sight words reader so I let her. I think it was a lot easier to read that because there were more cues from the pictures.

我哭了 One Take



Sophie is able to make sense of Chinese characters a lot faster than English words and phonemes.I suppose it involves memorising and decoding so she is able to "read" much quicker.



I believe I might have unconsciously motivated her to "perform" better with my video taking. Sophie loves to show off her "talents" in front of my camera because she gets lots of positive attention and praises from me.

My Foot!!!

Last Saturday was Sophie’s second lesson at Yamaha (Thomson Plaza) with Papa. I carried Alfee and shopped around as we waited for their lesson to end. Then I saw a little kiosk selling foot orthoses and remembered what Dr Lim had said about Sophie’s feet. She has referred me to have her gross motor skills assessed at Mt Alvenia (Physio Department) but added that I could have her feet checked by an orthopaedician for any physical cause to her clumsiness in gait. She told me that they could be found at those kiosks selling foot orthoses in shopping malls. So, I quickly had a little chit chat with the man.

When Papa and Sophie came out, I called them to join us at the kiosk to have our feet assessed. With just a scan to check our weight distribution, he managed to convinced us that ALL our feet pronate. Of course, mine is VERY severe and need insoles or risk having all sorts of pain and bunions. Our problem is largely genetic (unfortunate) but there is hope for Sophie. With those specially fitted foot orthoses (insoles) for 10 years before her bones are set, she can be “cured”. Of course, she needs to keep changing the insoles as her feet grow bigger. That is hundreds of dollars every few months.

We almost caved in and ordered a pair for her since that will solve OUR problem of worrying about her clumsiness and falling. And he did mention that the “cure” is conveniently “… best if she starts wearing the orthoses around 3 years old… ”. Fortunately, Alfee was very cranky and Sophie was sleepy so we decided to come back next week to place the order instead.

In the car, we talked about it and Papa suggested we should see a registered orthopaedician for a proper assessment before we make any decision. He feared that the insoles might cause more harm than help her. Back home, I did some research and found Singapore Sports and Orthopaedic Clinic at Gleneagles Medical Center. I quickly made an appointment to have Sophie’s feet assessed. I thought I also should have my knee checked since I have some knee pain forever. Our appointment was today – 3.30 pm.

I left Alfee with Ah Gong and went to the clinic with Papa and Sophie. As it turned out, Sophie's legs are fine. Everything we reported about her (clumsiness in gait) was just a "learning process" to the doctor. He said that Sophie has to keep learning how to balance and coordinate her limbs over time. As far as he was concerned, Sophie's feet were "beautifully" developed with nothing to worry about. He was surprised that we were referred to a physiotherapist as he thought our pediatrician should be in better position to assess Sophie's feet. When asked if we should still go for an assessment at Mt Alvenia tomorrow, he exchanged glances with his assistant and grunted. We took it as a 'no' (loud and clear).

As for my knee, I was advised to see him only when the pain affects my daily operation. I wanted to "talk" to him more about our concern, but he was not too keen to entertain anxious parents. He had a long queue of patients with broken limbs and other more serious conditions. I felt quite embarrassed that our issues were so trivial. We quickly paid for consultation ($120 each before GST) and my x-rays (approx $70, also before GST), took no medicine (because of my breastfeeding) and left for Mr Bean pancakes and soya milk before heading home to reunite with Alfee...

Pretty Goofy


I am starting to appreciate Sophie's soft, wavy locks, her huge and bright eyes with long, curly lashes and her irresistible smile. She is turning out to be quite a good looking little girl! A little scary for me to imagine how we have to fend off boys eventually. I guess I will leave it to Papa. For now, however, she always refuses to smile to my camera and ends up with a goofy look!


A Picture Tells A Thousand Words

Sophie drew a picture of Papa and herself at Singapore Botanical Gardens. In the picture, she is carrying Papa on her shoulders. She said she is "big already... and strong" so she can carry Papa. Behind them, is an apple tree with a fallen apple. In reality, it was Papa who was carrying her on his shoulders. Definitely, he has such positive impact on her that she will always carry with her fond memories of her relationship with her daddy.

Singapore Botanical Garden


Papa loves taking Sophie to the Singapore Botanical Gardens. In time to come, Alfee will be old enough to join in the fun. Right now, the time belong to Papa and Sophie.




Sophie, without fail, will end up on Papa's shoulders. It is a wonderful way for her to feel like she is at "the top of the world" (Papa is 1.83 m tall after all).



When the morning is almost over, Alfee got his share of Papa as well. Now I know why both Papa and Mama are important to children. They complement each other in loving their children. Even though I do not really enjoy the heat, sweat and mud, I will never have the heart to stop Papa from taking them outdoors.

Swimming Assessment Assessment


The swimming coach from our condo will assess if Sophie is ready for swimming lessons this coming Sunday. He told us that a child must be able to follow instructions before he or she can learn swimming. I do not doubt she can understand instructions, but to follow them, well, that is not as straight forward. So, we decided to do our own assessment prior to her assessment on Sunday. Phew! Talk about kiasu-ism!




Of course we went to the pool together. I carried Alfee in my arms while Papa gave Sophie "swimming lessons". Well, he was trying out all sorts of positions with the tube and float to help her float.










No matter how he tried to adjust Sophie and the floats, she just kept sinking. She even drank some water in the process. I guess she was a little nervous as well so her body was stiff and rigid. At one point, Sophie was too tired to try some more.




Then, she managed to float a little. She was so tired that she stopped trying to float, as a result, she floated! Of course, Papa also found the perfect way to position the floats for her.






While they were trying to float in the waters, Alfee fell asleep in my helper's arms. She came down to watch Sophie and ended up carrying Alfee instead. She might think twice about joining us in the future.




We are still uncertain if the coach will accept her. Still, we will encourage her to swim because her life depends on it. With our genes and all, she has a weak respiratory system and only exercises such as swimming can help strengthen her lungs. Fingers crossed.




It's Our Time... Papa & The Kids

We feel a little more relaxed now that we have withdrawn from I Can Read (Bukit Timah Plaza) at 9,30am. With all due respect, I disagree with how the Little Learners programme has been run by the centre and its curriculum. We were offered (just before our feet stepped out of the sliding door of the centre) a promotion to the Little Thinkers programme if we should change our mind and reinstate but we turned them down... and joined YAMAHA instead!!! Finally, we can let Sophie build some good music foundation, something I have always hoped for. I am no musician so I want my kids to be musically trained. And after just one lesson, Papa reported that both of them (parent accompanied programme) really enjoyed it. In fact, I was so inspired that I decided I should buy a piano from Uncle Simon and start learning pop piano.

That aside... now Papa can enjoy some bonding time with the kids on Saturday mornings before we head down to Thomson Plaza for Sophie's music lessons. He has very little time on weekdays for them so he really enjoys playing with them on weekends. And of course, I love it that we can even have a cuppa (as a family) at Thomson Plaza before her lesson!

蝴蝶 Canto Pop Star

Although this was not the first time Sophie sang a Chinese song, I was impressed that she could sing the complete song without any help. She is begining to show signs that she is a born performer (like me) too.




蝴蝶

蝴蝶,蝴蝶,生得真美丽。头戴着金丝,身穿花花衣。你爱花儿,花儿也爱你。你会跳舞,它有甜蜜。

Now, this is a mystery. Papa is always able to teach Sophie to perform all sorts of gigs with him, for him! Here is her canto pop attempt...

春晓

Sophie's grasp of the Chinese language has improved leaps and bounds. She speaks Mandarin in short, simple sentences voluntarily now. She is able to translate the English names of some common items to Mandarin as well. I would like to think the credit goes to her school, mainly. I doubt one term at Berries has made much difference although I am sure her teacher is very experienced and effective.




春晓

春眠不觉晓,处处闻啼鸟,夜来风雨声,花落知多少。